Is it okay to have a romantic relationship with someone else without actually having sex? Is it wrong to live with a married woman who is separated from her husband? Is wrong to continue to live with a spouse who is involved in adultery? Will God forgive me for committing adultery? Can I divorce my husband/wife for having. 12 Jan Credit Brian Stauffer. THE woman who came to see Ken Altshuler, a divorce lawyer, had reason to be enraged: her husband was not only having an affair, he was also having an extravagant, money's-no-concern, fabled-and-faraway- beaches affair. He had taken his girlfriend to Tahiti, he was sending. Adultery is devastating to any marriage, regardless of the circumstances. Unfortunately, adultery is all too common. If your spouse has committed or is committing adultery, you need to turn your feelings toward God and ask Him for wisdom and strength to do the right thing, and also ask for the ability to hear His voice in the.